Asking for a change

A decision to make... a betrayal to manage... a job, a carrier, a family, a life.

Sometimes you feel like it is so hard to go on. And people may say that your problems are not that bad, "there's worse things going on in the world than your stupid issues".

That is not enough. Because we always know that it could get worse, it can always get worse. But this moment, at this exact time, you have a decision to make. And if you're worried, it's not something you can control.

I always end up talking about feelings. But this is because everything leads to them. Everything revolves around how you feel, how a person makes you feel, how your life makes you feel. And everything you do leads to one feeling: happiness, fulfillment, joy. If you decide something is because it's better for you. And if it is better for someone else and you chose their happiness, that makes you happy itself.

"There are no selfless good deeds"

And we've said so many times that we wished we could turn back time. I think I'm the person that says it the most. Because time is precious. And first reactions are so natural that sometimes you regret them. And, of course, you have to live with that. There's no other choice but one. And that's the one I want to make.

You should know, it is possible to start all over. Your age doesn't matter. Your current life doesn't matter. You can always start a new one, from scratch. There's always more time. But then you think about all the time that you lost, and that's the worst part.

But you have to get over it. Because something else is waiting. And you may think "how do I do that?"

It is hard, but the magic words are "move on".

There's always another choice, another way. Change your habits, change your friends.. change your life.